Congrats to our two winners Jill and Diane!
I fought it. For 12 years I fought my husband on the issue of working out with him. And the more he pushed the issue, the more I pushed backâ€“ albeit to my own detriment- heâ€™d say, â€œYou think you really need another blueberry pancake?â€ to which Iâ€™d respond, â€œI donâ€™t just need one more pancake I need THREE more.â€
It was the typical, youâ€™re not my father (just because youâ€™re fifteen years older than me- you canâ€™t control me) response. But I donâ€™t think I was really listening and now I realize, he wasnâ€™t trying to control meâ€“ he was just trying to save me, from myself. But at the time-I didnâ€™t want to listen, I couldnâ€™t listen- because I had always struggled with my weight and so- I promised myself I was never going to allow ANYONE to dictate a body image ideal to me. I was the master of my own destiny (albeit one that was taking me closer towards the edge of gaining more weight than I wanted to, and becoming increasingly more sedentary and complacent about this fact.)
And then my sweet daddy died at 68 years old, and things just came clearer into focus for me. The fact that I donâ€™t want to die at an early age. And that eating those three extra blueberry pancakes wasnâ€™t empowering me over my husbandâ€™s slightly controlling ways. In fact, there were other ways- I could show my more senior hubster that I was the boss of me, and that just because I was 15 years younger than him- I didnâ€™t need that often parental, authoritative voice, he sometimes used with me. But I could do it without sabotaging myself, and my body, and my health.
So- weâ€™ve been working out togetherâ€“ and more importantly Iâ€™m working out on my own terms at a gym I love, on machines I choose, and I have to admit it feels pretty darn good. And in the spirit of finding things we can do as a couple and since Iâ€™m now doing something my husband has been wanting me to do for YEARS- its his turn to do something for meâ€¦ start wearing cologne.
I know, sounds crazy- right? Thatâ€™s all I want from my husband- and yet itâ€™s something he really doesnâ€™t enjoy- but since I just got the most DELICIOUS scents from new line to review- well- heâ€™s FINALLY decided that dabbing a little of it behind his ears- if it will keep his wifey happy- is a task heâ€™s willing to undertake.
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GUESS Night ($49/1.7 fl. Oz.): Guess Night embodies confidence. Notes of hot pepper, grapefruit and cedar wood create a masculine, woody scent full of adrenaline and adventure. Wear it for an instant boost of confidence that owns the night. www.guess.com
And because I wantÂ your man to smell SUPER seductive Iâ€™m giving away TWO bottles ofÂ GUESS NIGHTÂ to two lucky married my sugar daddy readers. For a chance to be one of our TWO WINNERS You must subscribe to our YouTube ChannelÂ and leave a comment here that you subscribed. For a second entry you can Married My Sugar Daddy on Facebook! For another entry you can Follow @MelissaSChapman on Twitter and Retweet this giveaway! For another entry you can follow MelissaSChapmanwriter on Instagram and for another entry you can follow @MelissaSchapman on Pinterest Good LUCK! Giveaway ends November 28TH